Tapping Tip: Teach EFT to someone else

A great way to improve your EFT is by teaching it to someone else. Teaching something inspires you to learn more yourself. Also when you explain it to another person it increases your confidence in using this technique.

Fraeda on "News for the Soul" radio show.

On May 17th at 11:00am I will be on "News For The Soul Radio" show. I will be interviewed about using EFT for Motherless Daughters. When I have more info I will send it out so those who want to can listen to the show. It will also be archived and you can listen for free after the show airs. Stay tuned... www.newsforthesoul.com

This story is from a recent session with another EFT practitioner Maya Balenz.

"I was left with a caregiver from earliest infancy, my mother was preoccupied with working for my father in his medical practice, and I went to daycare in the '50's from age 3 until first grade, often sleeping overnight away from home. When my mother was no longer out of the home, she was mentally off in her own world, and emotionally distant and inaccessible to her children's needs, as she believed it was best to 'leave her children alone' to let them find their own way. I certainly felt angry and unloved by my mother throughout most of my life, and I avoided her, in an attempt to avoid the pain and disappointment of that all-important relationship. She is now nearing the end of her life, and I am faced with the reality that she will never be there for me, and that I must learn to accept her as she is and has always been. She did the best she could, and now I want to cultivate a gentleness and caring for myself that goes beyond the neglect and detachment of my childhood. In the EFT tapping session, these painful feelings softened and dissolved to create a spaciousness for remembrance of the Truth that real Love comes from Source and not from others. Now after the session I am softening towards my mother and towards myself.

After a beginning EFT tapping round, "Even though I have all these overwhelming feelings about my aging mother's decline, I deeply and completely love and accept myself", an old belief surfaced that 'I had lost my old anchor (to my mother) which I never really had'. After a flood of tears of sadness and a welling up of fear, feeling unanchored, the truth became evident that my only real anchor that ever was or ever would be, is my anchor with Source, beyond this flesh and these bones. Within an hour, the anger, sadness and fear dissolved into the comforting remembrance of my true connection with Source, along with compassion and acceptance for my aging mother.

Fraeda, I am certain, that you can be present and skillful with anyone or any issue that comes up. I trust your skill with EFT, your compassionate presence, careful listening, and your unflappable centeredness as you work with me. Thank you for a great session." -Maya